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July 13th, 2008

The Week in Recalls 7/7 - 7/13

Hello parents and consumers. This week there were three child-related products recalled from the Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC). If the names of any of these products sound familiar or you think you might own them, visit the link with each listing below to find pictures and/or part numbers of the items in question. If an item you own is recalled, take it away from your child immediately and visit the CPSC for details on repair, replacement or refund.

July 10 - Parragon Books Recalls Children’s Necklaces
- Risk of Lead Exposure
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08326.html

July 10 - Shoelace and Necklace Children’s Charms Recalled by Action Products International
- Risk of Lead Exposure
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08327.html

July 10 - Lip Gloss and Jewelry Sets Sold Exclusively at Wal-Mart Recalled by F.A.F. Inc.
- Risk of Lead Exposure
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08329.html

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July 12th, 2008

Winning your wife’s weight in beer

I read this over at Brew Ha Ha and had to share this because I think it sounds like a rather interesting contest for couples. Annually, a small Finnish town holds quite a unique contest with an equally unique prize.

From Spiegel Online International

Every year, the small Finnish town of Sonkajärvi hosts the Wife Carrying World Championships. All men have to do is sprint around an obstacle course while carrying their wives. And the women? They have to hold on tight — which isn’t as easy as it sounds. .. The main competition this weekend in Sonkajärvi will feature a quarter-kilometer (.15-mile) course across sand, asphalt and grass, over two “dry obstacles,” like logs, and through about three feet of water.

The grand prize is an amount of beer equal to the weight of the winner’s wife. The contest, which started as a joke in 1992, doesn’t preclude single gents from entering the contest either, as ’stolen wives’ are legal within the context of the contest.

“The wife to be carried,” according to official rules, “may be your own, the neighbor’s or you may have found her (elsewhere) … She must, however, be over 17 years of age. It can be a stolen wife,” Keränen explained. “It can be your daughter.” But it can’t be another contestant’s wife, stolen from on the track? “No. That’s illegal,” she said.

I can’t imagine drinking my wife’s weight in beer (and she’s not heavy) but I’d love to enter. It sounds like a rather interesting couples activity and all seems in good fun. I’m not alone in this; 50 couples from 14 countries entered this year and draws 10,00 spectators to the town of 5,000 residents.

The world record for the course is 55.5 seconds so I have a solid training goal.

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July 9th, 2008

Fatherhood makes me drive like a grandfather

As a coworker recalled the dangerously idiotic driver he encountered on his way to work this morning, I realized that my own driving habits have changed since being a dad. My response to his story about a person who raced him to the end of a drop off lane was “why don’t people just wait and get there 30 seconds later.”

My former attitude was more towards “that’s why I bought a six-speed turbo.” Although I was never a reckless driver, I now am much more careful with the little one ever present in the back of my mind or the back of the car. Our last ‘family automobile’ purchase was made squarely on safety for the little guy and I now slow down quite a bit whenever I’m behind the wheel. Neither of those things make me a grandpa driver, but it gets worse.

I now find myself considering alternate routes for risk mitigation and drive at different times with less traffic. Heck, I even use the term ‘risk mitigation’ which alone tacks on 15 years to my driving age.

I no longer see yellow lights as an opportunity to relive the chase scene from Ronin. Did I say 15 years? make that 25.

I even try and reduce the number of left-hand turns across busy streets. Did I say 25 years? Make that 40.

I now leave the house earlier when I have to be someplace at a particular time. That alone qualifies me for membership in AARP. I caught myself looking at lumbar pillows at the mall the other day, so pretty soon I may just end up taking a shuttle everywhere and transporting my son in the basket of my walker.

I don’t really care if I take on a more elderly pattern, the boy is worth it. The conversation this morning just made me realize that since my son was born I’ve changed lots of habits, and driving is one of them. How have you become more cautious since your kids were born?

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July 8th, 2008

Growling Monster Baby

Finding funny baby videos on YouTube is one of my new pastimes. My little boy has started growling lately so I found this video particularly cute.

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July 6th, 2008

Antique Cars, Charity and My Father

For the past 23 years the 4th of July weekend has had a bit of additional activity for me and my family. While most people associate parades, hot dogs and fireworks with the 4th, it also has a very strong association with antique and classic cars for me.

Twenty three years ago my dad and some friends started the Berkshire Charity Auto Show. The show occurs every year on the Sunday after the 4th of July and is a draw for hundreds of classic and antique cars and thousands of spectators who come to enjoy pristine autos of years past. While everyone enjoys the visual aspect of the show, there is also the incredible benefit of raising money for charity. Over the past two (plus) decades he and his friends have orchestrated this massive undertaking and in the process raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for charities like the United Way, Boys and Girls Clubs and the American Cancer Society.

While I don’t share quite the same passion for antique and classic cars that my father does, I have to say that I am incredibly impressed by the devotion and effort he puts forth year after year to help other people. Charity is often a virtue lost in modern consumer society, but he holds on strong to that idea and continues to put tremendous effort towards helping others. I am proud of his stewardship and the manner in which he gives of himself to others. I constantly think of the values and virtues that I wish to instill in my son and hope that I can personally provide such a good example of charity to my little boy as he grows up.

Dad, you do a great job, you make a difference in people’s lives and I’m proud of you.

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July 6th, 2008

The Week in Recalls 6/30 - 7/6

Hello parents and consumers. This week there were three child-related products recalled from the Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC). If the names of any of these products sound familiar or you think you might own them, visit the link with each listing below to find pictures and/or part numbers of the items in question. If an item you own is recalled, take it away from your child immediately and visit the CPSC for details on repair, replacement or refund.

Pay special attention to the Bayside Furnishings recall as this recall was issued in conjunction with the death of a child.

July 1, 2008 - Infant Garments Recalled by Rashti & Rashti
- Choking Hazard
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08317.html

July 3, 2008 - Bayside Furnishings Recalls Youth Bed Toy Chests Sold at Costco
- Recalled After the Death of a 22-Month-Old Child
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08323.html

July 3, 2008 - Children’s Jewelry Recalled by Bead Bazaar USA
- Risk of Lead Exposure
- http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08324.html

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July 5th, 2008

Why You Should Always Register Your Car Seats

This past week we stepped up to the next size car seat for the little one. Attached to the installation instructions was a product registration card, which I started to slide into the fold of the ‘how to’ booklet. I was about a half second away from forgetting I ever saw the card in the first place when I noticed big, bold print telling me why I should register my car seat.

When you register your car seat you give the manufacturer a method to contact you in case of a product recall. While you should be reading The Week in Recalls here on Inside Fatherhood, registering your car seats and other child-related products makes sure you are aware of any notices or warnings that materially effect your child’s products.

They only take a minute to fill out and are often postage paid, so when dealing with children’s products registration cards are a quick and easy way to ensure your child’s safety.

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July 4th, 2008

Happy Fourth of July!

I’d like to wish all of our US readers a very happy 4th of July. I hope you all have a safe and happy holiday and enjoy the company of your friends and loved ones.

For those of you taking in a fireworks display this weekend, check out Digital Photography School’s post on How to Photograph Fireworks Displays.

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July 2nd, 2008

Rethinking Baby Borrowers

The show Baby Borrowers was a repeat this week, which gave me the opportunity to further discuss it with others. While everyone with whom I spoke felt some of the ‘contestants’ were painfully clueless and not ready to be parents, we all agreed that hopefully any teens watching the show would realize that parenthood is a difficult proposition.

From the perspective of current parents, the behavior of a few contestants was annoying, aggravating and irresponsible. However, hopefully this will illustrate to other teens that having children is neither something to be taken lightly nor a fun way to have a new little buddy. Our hope is that kids who watch Baby Borrowers will be more careful and less cavalier about becoming parents at an early age.

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July 1st, 2008

Babies eating lemons

Oddly enough, there is no shortage of videos of babies eating lemons on YouTube. Also strange, I can’t remember how I came to find videos of babies eating lemons in the first place. Technically you’re not supposed to give citrus to a child under a year (according to our pediatrician), but if you do, have a video camera handy.

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